War or Peace?

War or Peace?

War or Peace? Be honest, sweetheart: How do you talk and write about your relationship with your toxic ex after the breakup? Are you talking about the “war with your ex” or, to put it bluntly, the “war of the roses”, do you shoot off a “cannon” every now and then,...
SOS-Help for Moms with Toxic Ex Partners

SOS-Help for Moms with Toxic Ex Partners

SOS-Help for Moms with Toxic Ex Partners I once asked my German group of strong mothers to find out what kind of help they found useful in the first and most difficult time, and which could help the mothers with toxic ex-partners in their greatest need the most. One...
When you cannot lose as a mother

When you cannot lose as a mother

When you cannot lose as a mother Breaking up with a highly toxic ex is no walk in the rose garden. That much is certain. Every now and then, mothers who find me only after they have already gone through a veritable odyssey in court write to me saying, “I wish I...
Should you sue for alimony?

Should you sue for alimony?

Should you sue for alimony? ​What if I advise you not to sue for alimony? Boah – I can already see how I’ll cause waves of indignation! With everything I am about to give you to read, please note the following: Only you know your inner voice and can take...
Why Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS) is Bullshit

Why Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS) is Bullshit

Why Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS) is Bullshit Sweetheart, it’s that time again: this article on parental alienation syndrome, or PAS, is going to be heavy. Please read it only if you are stable enough to take in information that will help you to clarify...