Why you should never voluntarily go into mediation with your narcissistic ex
Why you should never voluntarily go into mediation with your narcissistic ex …and what you should insist on when it is ordered from above. I’ve always been a big fan of mediation. I think it’s a fantastic idea to bring a neutral third party into a...
How a mom can avoid getting bullied in court
How a mom can avoid getting bullied in court I sometimes find it quite outrageous what strangers assume when they judge a mother. Especially in family court proceedings. At the moment when a mother has to make a decision whether to leave the toxic relationship or not,...
Counter-parenting: when the Ex does everything he can to sabotage your parenting efforts
Counter-parenting: when the Ex does everything he can to sabotage your parenting efforts In this article, I want to vent about the different parenting styles – co-parenting, parallel parenting, and counter-parenting – and help you find a clear point of...
When you cannot lose as a mother
When you cannot lose as a mother Breaking up with a highly toxic ex is no walk in the rose garden. That much is certain. Every now and then, mothers who find me only after they have already gone through a veritable odyssey in court write to me saying, “I wish I...
Should you sue for alimony?
Should you sue for alimony? What if I advise you not to sue for alimony? Boah – I can already see how I’ll cause waves of indignation! With everything I am about to give you to read, please note the following: Only you know your inner voice and can take...
Hello, my name is Heidi!
Single mom with a child and a dog. I coach moms with toxic exes and support you in how to be strong, calm and confident in your challenges with your ex. More about me ...