How a mom can avoid getting bullied in court
How a mom can avoid getting bullied in court I sometimes find it quite outrageous what strangers assume when they judge a mother. Especially in family court proceedings. At the moment when a mother has to make a decision whether to leave the toxic relationship or not,...
Counter-parenting: when the Ex does everything he can to sabotage your parenting efforts
Counter-parenting: when the Ex does everything he can to sabotage your parenting efforts In this article, I want to vent about the different parenting styles – co-parenting, parallel parenting, and counter-parenting – and help you find a clear point of...
When you cannot lose as a mother
When you cannot lose as a mother Breaking up with a highly toxic ex is no walk in the rose garden. That much is certain. Every now and then, mothers who find me only after they have already gone through a veritable odyssey in court write to me saying, “I wish I...
Should you sue for alimony?
Should you sue for alimony? What if I advise you not to sue for alimony? Boah – I can already see how I’ll cause waves of indignation! With everything I am about to give you to read, please note the following: Only you know your inner voice and can take...
Open letter to all guardians ad litem
Open letter to all guardians ad litem Are you a guardian ad litem? Then this article is for you. Because I need to talk to you. Just between us, from woman to woman: Are you satisfied with your work? Are you satisfied with the job you have at the family court as a...
Hello, my name is Heidi!
Single mom with a child and a dog. I coach moms with toxic exes and support you in how to be strong, calm and confident in your challenges with your ex. More about me ...