Claiming the right to determine place of residence -yes or no?
Claiming the right to determine place of residence -yes or no? Every now and then, mothers write to me wanting concrete tips from me: “Does it make sense for me to apply for the right to determine place of residence or sole custody of my child? How much do you...
Why it does not take two to argue
Why it does not take two to argue This article is for you, dear outsider. For the mother’s family members and not-so-close friends, for the neighbors, the children’s teachers and educators, for the judges, the youth welfare workers, and yes, even for the...What boundaries do you need with a narcissistic ex?
What boundaries do you need with a narcissistic ex? In my German club of courageous mothers there are daily impulses to reflect and move forward. Some time ago, I asked the question of what necessary boundaries moms have not yet allowed themselves to set The answers...
Why you shouldn’t let yourself be blackmailed, even if you could sink into the ground with shame
Why you shouldn’t let yourself be blackmailed, even if you could sink into the ground with shame Have you forgiven yourself yet, sweetheart? That you chose this man? That you fathered a child (or two or three) with him? That you fell head over heels in love with...
Hello, my name is Heidi!
Single mom with a child and a dog. I coach moms with toxic exes and support you in how to be strong, calm and confident in your challenges with your ex. More about me ...