How to become a brave mother
How to become a brave mother Do you actually feel brave right now? Or are you comparing yourself with other mothers who seem to be in a similar situation to you and who seem braver from the outside, and you wonder how they managed it? Ha! After my years of experience...
When you cannot lose as a mother
When you cannot lose as a mother Breaking up with a highly toxic ex is no walk in the rose garden. That much is certain. Every now and then, mothers who find me only after they have already gone through a veritable odyssey in court write to me saying, “I wish I...
Are you having second thoughts about separating from the toxic man, even though you already want to?
Are you having second thoughts about separating from the toxic man, even though you already want to? Let’s say you’re still in your relationship and you’re dead unhappy. Little by little, you get more and more evidence that your husband and father of...
Should you sue for alimony?
Should you sue for alimony? What if I advise you not to sue for alimony? Boah – I can already see how I’ll cause waves of indignation! With everything I am about to give you to read, please note the following: Only you know your inner voice and can take...
Why the joint physical custody model is a big NO
Why the joint physical custody model is a big NO Many of the mothers with a toxic Ex partner who find me at some point realize that it was a big mistake to have gone for a trial of the joint physical custody, or shared residential custody, model right at the...
Hello, my name is Heidi!
Single mom with a child and a dog. I coach moms with toxic exes and support you in how to be strong, calm and confident in your challenges with your ex. More about me ...