How Toxic is Your Ex?

How Toxic is Your Ex?

How Toxic is Your Ex? ​Before you get into the following type analysis: No, not every ex-partner of a mother is toxic! I have to emphasize this again and again, because I write on this blog only and exclusively for a very specific target group of readers. I focus my...
How to become a brave mother

How to become a brave mother

How to become a brave mother Do you actually feel brave right now? Or are you comparing yourself with other mothers who seem to be in a similar situation to you and who seem braver from the outside, and you wonder how they managed it? Ha! After my years of experience...
When you cannot lose as a mother

When you cannot lose as a mother

When you cannot lose as a mother Breaking up with a highly toxic ex is no walk in the rose garden. That much is certain. Every now and then, mothers who find me only after they have already gone through a veritable odyssey in court write to me saying, “I wish I...
Should you sue for alimony?

Should you sue for alimony?

Should you sue for alimony? ​What if I advise you not to sue for alimony? Boah – I can already see how I’ll cause waves of indignation! With everything I am about to give you to read, please note the following: Only you know your inner voice and can take...
Why the joint physical custody model is a big NO

Why the joint physical custody model is a big NO

Why the joint physical custody model is a big NO ​Many of the mothers with a toxic Ex partner who find me at some point realize that it was a big mistake to have gone for a trial of the joint physical custody, or shared residential custody, model right at the...