What’s much more important than putting your child first
What’s much more important than putting your child first An observation I make all the time: we mothers worry the most about our children after separation and anxiously watch how they experience this time and deal with the father’s actions. Every word the...
If your kid doesn’t want to go to dad’s for the weekend, and what you can do about it
If your kid doesn’t want to go to dad’s for the weekend, and what you can do about it There are some situations where we moms wish the weekend of visitation to hell because we don’t want it and it hurts us deeply personally. But what to do when the...
5 elementary questions you should ask yourself before arguing with your ex
5 elementary questions you should ask yourself before arguing with your ex You know how it is: Your Ex brings your daughter back after the weekend of contact and laughingly tells you – at 5:30pm – that she just slept in the car for the last half hour. Must...
Why fear shouldn’t be your answer to his threat
Why fear shouldn’t be your answer to his threat “If you leave, I’ll take your kids away from you!” I don’t want to know how many moms who are desperate and heartbroken in their current marriage or relationship hear this exact phrase. Are...
The only way you should deal with narcissism – if you want to be happy again
The only way you should deal with narcissism – if you want to be happy again I don’t read them all anymore – those bad stories about narcissistic abuse. Stories about how men manipulate and psychologically abuse their wives. It’s killing me. It...
Hello, my name is Heidi!
Single mom with a child and a dog. I coach moms with toxic exes and support you in how to be strong, calm and confident in your challenges with your ex. More about me ...