What do you do when your toxic ex manipulates your toddler?
What do you do when your toxic ex manipulates your toddler? It is always bad when a child is manipulated by a toxic ex. As a mother, you don’t know exactly what your ex has said about you, but after the visit, you notice how angry your child is with you. This...
What to do if you lose custody of your child to your Ex?
What to do if you lose custody of your child to your Ex? You know that I always try to encourage you with my articles. Even in the biggest everyday struggles with the Ex, to keep your head up, to train yourself to be more relaxed and not to always jump on the...
To fight for your child, or to let go?
To fight for your child, or to let go? No matter where you are on your journey with your toxic ex – at some point, every mother has to ask herself whether she should keep fighting for her child, or to let go. In this article, I would like to help you make a...
What’s your wisest legal strategy moving forward?
What’s your wisest legal strategy moving forward? Have you recently endured your first marathon court hearing, received an unfavorable decision, and now find yourself pondering which legal strategy to take on next? Which court application would be prudent? Or...
The 50-50 alternating custody schedule as a narcissistic strategy
The 50-50 alternating custody schedule as a narcissistic strategy Can he take the children away from me? Suspected narcissistic fathers like to intimidate their (ex-)partners with this threat again and again. As a rule, the standard answer is: No. We could actually...
Hello, my name is Heidi!
Single mom with a child and a dog. I coach moms with toxic exes and support you in how to be strong, calm and confident in your challenges with your ex. More about me ...