When you’re down
When you’re down Sweetheart, if you just found and are reading this blog article, it’s for a reason. And right up front, I’m sending you a very big hug. Let me assure you: The phase you’re in right now will pass. Just like all the other bad...
Why sole custody won’t make you happy
Why sole custody won’t make you happy A few weeks ago, I asked the moms in my German Brave Moms’ Club a coaching question whose answers really surprised me. As a coach, I always have a certain expectation, but I really didn’t expect this. The...
Why you should never voluntarily go into mediation with your narcissistic ex
Why you should never voluntarily go into mediation with your narcissistic ex …and what you should insist on when it is ordered from above. I’ve always been a big fan of mediation. I think it’s a fantastic idea to bring a neutral third party into a...
How Toxic is Your Ex?
How Toxic is Your Ex? Before you get into the following type analysis: No, not every ex-partner of a mother is toxic! I have to emphasize this again and again, because I write on this blog only and exclusively for a very specific target group of readers. I focus my...
When you cannot lose as a mother
When you cannot lose as a mother Breaking up with a highly toxic ex is no walk in the rose garden. That much is certain. Every now and then, mothers who find me only after they have already gone through a veritable odyssey in court write to me saying, “I wish I...
Hello, my name is Heidi!
Single mom with a child and a dog. I coach moms with toxic exes and support you in how to be strong, calm and confident in your challenges with your ex. More about me ...