What a court date, a child welfare office, and a mediation date have in common
What a court date, a child welfare office, and a mediation date have in common In 2017, when I started focusing very specifically on mothers with toxic Ex partners in my coaching support, I perceived court dates to be the very biggest mental hurdle for...
Which fight is wise?
Which fight is wise? Mothers ask me all the time how they know which fight is wise. Because sooner or later they hear and read it – if not from me, then from others: Choose your battles wisely. Easier said than done – if only you had a battle to fight! A...Why you’re not attachment intolerant, your toxic ex is – and how to prove it
Why you’re not attachment intolerant, your toxic ex is – and how to prove it Have you heard of the most popular accusation – the biggest killer word – toxic fathers say to their children’s mothers? “She’s attachment...
What you should (NOT) wear to court – and why you’re better off keeping statements to yourself
What you should (NOT) wear to court – and why you’re better off keeping statements to yourself Every now and then, there’s a discussion on my group of strong mothers on Facebook about what’s best to wear in court. To make a long story short:...
How to approach your first family court hearing at your strongest
How to approach your first family court hearing at your strongest Now you have already done everything so your case does not have to go to family court. You have left the silverware in the apartment, the new car, which is still in your name but which he mainly drives,...
Hello, my name is Heidi!
Single mom with a child and a dog. I coach moms with toxic exes and support you in how to be strong, calm and confident in your challenges with your ex. More about me ...