What will help if you think you’ve messed up in family court
What will help if you think you’ve messed up in family court Most moms who have been to family court know this scenario: they come out of a hearing that was basically successful, but they dwell for days on the fact that they didn’t stay “tough”...
7 best tips on how to deal with the toxic child’s father’s lies in court
7 best tips on how to deal with the toxic child’s father’s lies in court Any mother who has been in court with a toxic narcissistic ex – or in parenting counseling or mediation – can tell you a thing or two about the incredible lies the ex can...
Why you should definitely look for a lawyer, even if you think it might escalate the dispute
Why you should definitely look for a lawyer, even if you think it might escalate the dispute Lots of moms I connect with, either on Facebook or during coaching consultations, share a common worry: “If I get a lawyer, my (soon-to-be) ex will lose it, and things...
What’s your wisest legal strategy moving forward?
What’s your wisest legal strategy moving forward? Have you recently endured your first marathon court hearing, received an unfavorable decision, and now find yourself pondering which legal strategy to take on next? Which court application would be prudent? Or...
The 50-50 alternating custody schedule as a narcissistic strategy
The 50-50 alternating custody schedule as a narcissistic strategy Can he take the children away from me? Suspected narcissistic fathers like to intimidate their (ex-)partners with this threat again and again. As a rule, the standard answer is: No. We could actually...
Hello, my name is Heidi!
Single mom with a child and a dog. I coach moms with toxic exes and support you in how to be strong, calm and confident in your challenges with your ex. More about me ...