When you cannot lose as a mother
When you cannot lose as a mother Breaking up with a highly toxic ex is no walk in the rose garden. That much is certain. Every now and then, mothers who find me only after they have already gone through a veritable odyssey in court write to me saying, “I wish I...
Should you sue for alimony?
Should you sue for alimony? What if I advise you not to sue for alimony? Boah – I can already see how I’ll cause waves of indignation! With everything I am about to give you to read, please note the following: Only you know your inner voice and can take...
Open letter to all guardians ad litem
Open letter to all guardians ad litem Are you a guardian ad litem? Then this article is for you. Because I need to talk to you. Just between us, from woman to woman: Are you satisfied with your work? Are you satisfied with the job you have at the family court as a...
Why Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS) is Bullshit
Why Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS) is Bullshit Sweetheart, it’s that time again: this article on parental alienation syndrome, or PAS, is going to be heavy. Please read it only if you are stable enough to take in information that will help you to clarify...
When you should not use the Gray Rock Method
When you should not use the Gray Rock Method If you’ve been following me for a while, you know that I recommend the Gray Rock Method to moms with toxic Exes. I wrote a blog article on this relatively early on, which I refer to again and again when it comes to...
Hello, my name is Heidi!
Single mom with a child and a dog. I coach moms with toxic exes and support you in how to be strong, calm and confident in your challenges with your ex. More about me ...