If the child does not want to go to the contact weekend

If the child does not want to go to the contact weekend

If the child does not want to go to the contact weekend ​In recent weeks, I’ve talked about three classic situations in which we mothers wish the contact weekend away, because we don’t want it and it hurts us deeply personally. But what do we do when the...
How a mom can avoid getting bullied in court

How a mom can avoid getting bullied in court

How a mom can avoid getting bullied in court I sometimes find it quite outrageous what strangers assume when they judge a mother. Especially in family court proceedings. At the moment when a mother has to make a decision whether to leave the toxic relationship or not,...
When you cannot lose as a mother

When you cannot lose as a mother

When you cannot lose as a mother Breaking up with a highly toxic ex is no walk in the rose garden. That much is certain. Every now and then, mothers who find me only after they have already gone through a veritable odyssey in court write to me saying, “I wish I...