What it REALLY means if you become a Gray Rock

What it REALLY means if you become a Gray Rock

What it REALLY means if you become a Gray Rock Have you ever heard of the Gray Rock Method? It refers to one’s inner attitude – a really effective way to protect yourself from the psychological attacks of your ex in everyday life after the breakup. You are a...
Giving up is not an option – or is it?

Giving up is not an option – or is it?

Giving up is not an option – or is it? Do you also think to yourself from time to time that this is all very tedious with your toxic ex and that you don’t have the strength to fight anymore? Give up? Then you look at your sweet child and think – but...
When the Next is the Driving Force Behind the Noise

When the Next is the Driving Force Behind the Noise

When the Next is the Driving Force Behind the Noise It’s been a long time since I’ve written about Next, I realized, probably because it’s not a huge topic for all moms with toxic exes.  In many cases, the mothers even long for the next because they...
How to best deal with your toxic ex’s Next

How to best deal with your toxic ex’s Next

How to best deal with your toxic ex’s Next I’ve noticed that I haven’t written about the new wife at the toxic ex-partner’s side in a long time. Is probably because she is actually not so much in the focus of the mothers who follow me. But when...
Who’s to Blame?

Who’s to Blame?

Who’s to Blame? Yes, sweetheart: who is actually to blame for the whole mess you’re in right now? Your toxic ex? Yourself? Depending on what emotions are flooding you right now, you may find that this question triggers quite a bit, am I right? Back when I...
How to set proper boundaries for yourself

How to set proper boundaries for yourself

How to set proper boundaries for yourself Every morning in my Brave Moms Club, I have a powerful coaching prompt that invites moms to think extra hard about a topic and then comment.  For example, the topic of “setting boundaries.” This moves the whole...